Your October 2025 Mantras

The Charmer

A bar tub of maraschino cherries

Your October 2025 Mantra

It’s officially the best time of year: jumbo-pumpkin-pie-from-Costco season. Whether you’re sharing a slice with your loved ones or preparing a leaf-themed tablescape for one, the beginning of a new season has something special in store for all of us. In the last quarter of the year, take the time to reflect on how much you’ve accomplished, what you’ve overcome and what you’re looking forward to (and okay, we promise not to pull out The Polar Express DVD just yet). Your mantra this month is: 

October is full of charm: trees turn warm shades of orange and red, a cool breeze greets you on your walk home and IHOP finally brings back those pumpkin spice pancakes. The most charming thing about fall (other than me, of course) is the time it gives you to reflect. While some days felt like biting directly into a cinnamon stick, others felt like the first bite of a snickerdoodle cake. Despite it all, I’ve made it through another year, and I’m taking some well-deserved pumpkin cheesecake-centered time to appreciate it. The fall icon I’m most like is warm apple cider; inviting, tangy and sweet without being overbearing!    

Your Bio

You are the king or queen of front of house. You're a hit with the regulars and know just how to make everyone feel special. You're also very good at making it seem like you have it all together, but won't let anyone see what the inside of your car looks like. You're the first person your GM sends to an unhappy guest to make things better. Other famous Charmers include Bon Appetit's Brad Leone, Leslie Knope from Parks & Rec, and Joey Tribbiani from Friends.

The Creative

A cocktail smoking gun

Your October 2025 Mantra

It’s officially the best time of year: jumbo-pumpkin-pie-from-Costco season. Whether you’re sharing a slice with your loved ones or preparing a leaf-themed tablescape for one, the beginning of a new season has something special in store for all of us. In the last quarter of the year, take the time to reflect on how much you’ve accomplished, what you’ve overcome and what you’re looking forward to (and okay, we promise not to pull out The Polar Express DVD just yet). Your mantra this month is: 

October is the perfect time to bring my fall-themed Pinterest board to life. I’m spending this month appreciating the transition of a new season (and the transition from my pastel summer clothes to my burgundy fall collection). I like to think of the seasons like a rotating art exhibit; there’s something unique and beautiful about each one. While I tap into new ways to get creative (paper plate pumpkins, anyone?), I’ll remember that slowing down is just as much a part of the journey as anything else. The fall icon I’m most like is a handprint turkey: bright, colorful and truly one of a kind. 

Your Bio

You are always coming up with new ideas, and don't like the "old" way of doing things. You're like Fernet, either people love you or they pretend to. You enjoy mixing things up and may or may not have unironically owned a Fedora at one point (it was the 2010s ok!?). Other famous Creatives include Phoebe Buffay from Friends and Luna Lovegood from Harry Potter.

The Pusher

A blowtorch

Your October 2025 Mantra

It’s officially the best time of year: jumbo-pumpkin-pie-from-Costco season. Whether you’re sharing a slice with your loved ones or preparing a leaf-themed tablescape for one, the beginning of a new season has something special in store for all of us. In the last quarter of the year, take the time to reflect on how much you’ve accomplished, what you’ve overcome and what you’re looking forward to (and okay, we promise not to pull out The Polar Express DVD just yet). Your mantra this month is: 

Even though I wish the summer months could last forever (campaign to rename fall, “cold summer”, anyone?), the beauty in a new season is that it makes you appreciate the previous one even more. With October being less intense and a bit cooler, I’m still finding ways to bring the heat, whether it’s through my pumpkin chili recipe, getting my loved ones hyped for a new season or my newest idea: pumpkin patch parkour. The fall icon I’m most like is piping hot chocolate: intense, but sweet once I cool down.  

Your Bio

You can really work in any position front or back of house, but feel most at home on or near expo. You are high energy and can sometimes be aggressive (or just aggressively positive). You've expressed your fair share of "WOO!"s and "LET'S GOOOOO"s. You love the rush and are usually down to go out for a nightcap after closing. Other famous Pushers include Gordon Ramsey and Matty Matheson.

The Workhorse

A trusty (but a lil' crusty) frying pan

Your October 2025 Mantra

It’s officially the best time of year: jumbo-pumpkin-pie-from-Costco season. Whether you’re sharing a slice with your loved ones or preparing a leaf-themed tablescape for one, the beginning of a new season has something special in store for all of us. In the last quarter of the year, take the time to reflect on how much you’ve accomplished, what you’ve overcome and what you’re looking forward to (and okay, we promise not to pull out The Polar Express DVD just yet). Your mantra this month is: 

October is about more than cooler temps (and finally getting to use my leafblower again), it’s about taking the time to appreciate the twists, turns and pumpkin iced lattes that make this season so special. While I bring out my trusty fall jacket and enjoy the fact that walk-in refrigerator temps aren’t here just yet, I’ll keep in mind that if I can appreciate the cool, calm, collected nature of this season, I can appreciate it in myself, too. The fall icon I’m most like is a leaf rake: sturdy, reliable and always there when you need it most. 

Your Bio

You are calm, stable, and dependable. You always get your work done and don't make waves unless someone else doesn't put in their fair share. You may or may not be approaching burnout, but admitting it would be a sign of weakness. The random kitchen object that best represents your personality is a trusty (but a lil' crusty) frying pan. Other famous Workhorses include Sydney from The Bear and Peggy Olson from Mad Men.

The Mom

A walk-in refrigerator

Your October 2025 Mantra

It’s officially the best time of year: jumbo-pumpkin-pie-from-Costco season. Whether you’re sharing a slice with your loved ones or preparing a leaf-themed tablescape for one, the beginning of a new season has something special in store for all of us. In the last quarter of the year, take the time to reflect on how much you’ve accomplished, what you’ve overcome and what you’re looking forward to (and okay, we promise not to pull out The Polar Express DVD just yet). Your mantra this month is: 

October is the best time of year (and not just because of my impeccable sweater collection). As I pack up the pool noodles and finish my handmade leaf-wreath (which I’m secretly hoping someone will ask me about), I’m reminded that what you lose in one season, you gain in another. In my world, shorter days mean longer hugs, and cooler nights mean warmer socks (hand-knitted by yours truly). Being appreciative of every high and low is not just for my pumpkin bread recipe; it’s for every day, no matter the season. The fall icon I’m most like is a brown sugar candle: warm, sweet and still bright when no one's around.

Your Bio

You don't have to be a woman, but like a mother, you are caring and loving and also know alllll the tea. You're the go-to person when a coworker needs life advice or a shoulder to cry on. Other Moms include Sugar from The Bear and Lorelai from Gilmore Girls.

The Leader

An expo printer

Your October 2025 Mantra

It’s officially the best time of year: jumbo-pumpkin-pie-from-Costco season. Whether you’re sharing a slice with your loved ones or preparing a leaf-themed tablescape for one, the beginning of a new season has something special in store for all of us. In the last quarter of the year, take the time to reflect on how much you’ve accomplished, what you’ve overcome and what you’re looking forward to (and okay, we promise not to pull out The Polar Express DVD just yet). Your mantra this month is: 

While my usual start to a new season is all about planning (I’ve had my 2026 calendar ready since last year), this October, I’m deciding to slow down. Life is about more than checking off boxes on my 5, 10, and 20-year plan, and being a leader is about more than trying to have it all together all the time (although when it comes to my pumpkin cheesecake recipe and fall-themed trivia, I definitely have it all together). The best recipe for life contains a few simple ingredients: joy, hope and gratitude. With these things, every season can be pretty sweet. The fall icon I’m most like is a campfire; hardworking, fiery, but contained (and might offer you s’mores if you’re lucky).

Your Bio

You run the show and are likely a GM or other manager. You're often stressed out but still able to pull through and get shit done. You sometimes have outbursts but anger it's not your primary emotion. You are friendly, but probably not besties with most of the staff. Other famous Leaders include Carmy from The Bear, Selina Meyer from VEEP, and Tony Soprano.

The Quiet Mystery

A whetstone

Your October 2025 Mantra

October is just the beginning of my long-awaited stay-in-the-house-without-people-nagging-you season. The cooler months make up everything I enjoy: cozy days indoors, afternoon naps in my jumbo blankets (fresh out of the dryer so they’re still warm, of course) and comfort foods (goodbye, uncomfortable mid-day summer sweating). While I enjoy my alone time, I’m making sure to balance quality me-time with time for my loved ones. Whether it’s finishing that crochet project or working on that Lego cornucopia I started last year, this season is about making the most out of right now. The fall icon I’m most like is: chilled gazpacho soup (cool, calm and with a lot more than meets the eye). 

Your Bio

You are a mystery to us all (and even yourself). You show up and don't talk much but when you do say something it's typically quite profound. You're not usually managing anything and are ok with going with the flow. Although quiet, you would be missed if you weren't there. You can be slightly aloof but in a likable way. Other famous Quiet Mysteries include Hyde from That 70's Show (not an endorsement of Danny Masterson), Mama Coco from Coco, and Stanley from The Office.

The Perfectionist

A pair of chef tweezers

Your October 2025 Mantra

Your Bio

Some may describe you as anal or having an "it's just business" approach, but really you just enjoy the challenge of working in a restaurant (and you really like to be the best at it). If you worked in a traditional corporate setting, you'd probably be in trouble with HR because of the less-than-delicate way you handle others' mistakes. At your core though you take pride in what you do and think others should too. You might be a sommelier or executive chef. Other famous Perfectionists include Sherlock Holmes (the Benedict Cumberbatch version), Miranda Priestly from Devil Wears Prada, and Ralph Fiennes in The Menu.