Science of Service Episode 11: 5 holiday lessons from our guests
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The End-of-Year Toast: Lessons from the Science of Service Holiday Party
The end of the year in the hospitality industry usually looks one of two ways. You are either deep in the weeds, frantically trying to accommodate every holiday party and family gathering in your zip code, or you are facing the quiet lull that often precedes the January slump. Regardless of which camp you fall into, December is a natural time for reflection.
On a recent episode of the Science of Service podcast, host Rachel Stainton gathered a "holiday party" of industry experts to toast the year that was. While there were no actual bacon-wrapped dates or spiked punch involved in the recording, the guests brought something far more valuable: hard-earned wisdom on how to survive the season without losing your mind—or your profit margin.
From navigating staffing nightmares to finding the joy in service, here is a look at the strategies these seasoned operators use to close out the year on a high note.
The Unique Challenges of Restaurant Holidays
For most of the world, the holidays mean slowing down, logging off, and spending time with family. For restaurant professionals, the script flips entirely. As guest Omar Kasim notes, working in hospitality during December feels closer to working in retail on Black Friday than it does to a corporate holiday break.
The reality is that the customer dictates the schedule. When the public wants to celebrate, the restaurant must be open to host them. Kasim emphasizes that the customer is essentially the boss—they determine when you work, how long you work, and ultimately, how much the business makes. Accepting this reality is the first step to surviving the season. It is not about resenting the work; it is about recognizing the opportunity to facilitate joy for others during their most cherished moments.
Finding Meaning in Hospitality
Surviving the holiday rush requires more than just caffeine and grit. It requires a shift in perspective. Kasim suggests that to keep morale high, operators must help their teams find genuine meaning in the work.
Think about the last time you hosted a dinner party at your home. You likely spent hours cleaning, cooking, and decorating. Why did you do it? You did it for that moment when your friends sat down, took a bite, and smiled. You did it for the feeling of providing a great experience.
Restaurant work offers that same emotional payoff on a commercial scale. Kasim calls this the "joy of hospitality." He encourages his team to look for the "seven pockets of hospitality"—small moments where they can connect with a guest. A simple table touch, when done sincerely, transforms from a monotonous task into a fulfilling interaction. When a guest thanks you for taking care of them, that immediate feedback loop gives the work purpose, even during a chaotic double shift.
Leadership and Respect
Managing a team during the holidays tests every leadership muscle you have. Requests for time off pile up, and the temptation to be the "cool boss" who says yes to everything is strong. However, a lack of boundaries leads to operational failure.
Kasim shares a story about an employee who tried to call out of a shift the day before New Year's Eve to attend a "Bass Nectar" concert, citing Kasim’s own advice about "seizing the moment" as justification. While the audacity was impressive, the response required a steady hand. Kasim had to be objective: if he let one employee slide on a holiday blackout date, he would have to let everyone slide.
The lesson here is that employees do not necessarily want a leader they love, nor do they want one they fear. They want a leader they can respect. Respect is the balance between empathy and sternness. You can care deeply about your team while still upholding the standards that keep the business running.
Financial Prudence
While the front of house handles the emotional labor, the back office needs to handle the financial reality. Doug Cunningham, founder of Crafted Ledgers, suggests that if your business experiences a holiday lull, you should view it as a gift rather than a curse. It is the perfect time to "clean house."
Strengthen Vendor Relationships
Use the downtime to reach out to your suppliers. Re-evaluating contracts and simply asking for better pricing can lead to surprising results. Vendors are often willing to negotiate to keep a good relationship, especially when you have the time to have a proper conversation.
Build a Cash Reserve
We all know the seasonality of the industry is real. January and February can be brutally slow. Cunningham advises using the end of the year to aggressively manage your accounts receivable and build a cash reserve. Treat the holiday season as your squirrel-gathering-nuts phase to ensure you can weather the winter months comfortably.
Engage the Community
Even financial prudence can be fun. Cunningham recalls hosting "pie pairing" events, where the restaurant partnered with a local pie company to pair slices with specific beers. This not only drove revenue but created a sense of community engagement. It allowed customers to "pre-order" an experience, much like they would a holiday turkey, solidifying the restaurant's place as a "third space" in their lives.
Building Happy Teams
Perhaps the most critical takeaway from the Science of Service gathering came from Juanny Romero of Mothership Coffee. For years, her cafes remained open on Christmas Day. The revenue was there, and the community clearly wanted their coffee fix before heading to family obligations.
Eventually, Romero made the difficult decision to close on Christmas. The backlash was immediate—customers were banging on the doors. But Romero realized something vital: her priority had to be her team.
Giving the staff the day off was not just about rest; it was a signal that they were valued. Romero understood that she is playing the "long game." Revenue is an ongoing stream, not a finish line crossed on December 31st. If you burn out your team to capture every last dollar in Q4, you will pay for it with turnover and low morale in Q1.
As Kerry Brodie and Abe Monzon also highlighted, you cannot pour from an empty cup. Operators need to normalize the stress of the season, acknowledge that it is hard, and then give themselves and their teams permission to rest. A happy team builds a happy business, and that is a strategy that pays dividends year-round.
Navigating the New Year
The holidays are a microcosm of the hospitality industry itself: chaotic, demanding, emotional, and occasionally wonderful. Whether you are closing out the year with a packed dining room or using the downtime to reorganize your ledgers, the lessons remain the same.
Find meaning in the service you provide. Lead with respect rather than fear. Keep a close eye on your cash flow, but never prioritize short-term revenue over the long-term well-being of your people.
Here is to a successful end to the year, and an even brighter start to the next.

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